Smooth passage to college life!
My 17-year-old daughter is preparing for her senior secondary examination and will enter college soon. How can I ensure a smooth transition for her? Can I give her any guidelines as to how to deal with college life in times of difficulty as she will be in a totally different world, not at all like the environment in school and home? - MK Gulati.
The number of changes that we have to accept during the course of our lives is endless. However, there is no reason why these transitions should be difficult. School is fun but college life has its own charms and is radically different from school. It is a carefree period of fun and enjoyment, that stage in your child's life when she has her first taste of independence. There are different activities to participate in, friends to make, and a whole new vista of opportunities to discover.
Nevertheless, it is not a bed of roses. College has a relatively less protective environment than that of school. Often, the subject matter is not offered on a platter and requires research. Your child may decide to opt for a college located far from home. In that case, it will involve a lot of travel, which may take a little getting used to.
It is essential that you support your child completely. Do not let her feel pressurised or anchorless. She may loathe leaving the safe cocoon of school and stepping out into the wide world. Explain to her that change is the only thing that is constant in life. Highlight the advantages of college life. If she has friends, school buddies or other acquaintances joining the same college, the transition will be easier. Encourage her to talk to other students during admissions and interview.
